Category: Personal


Kay’s Best of 2011

I’m looking back this week, isn’t everybody? Here are my 2011 picks for crucial random categories like: Best conversation at a con, Most peculiar sight, and Best critter event.

Best new TV program

OK, talkin’ trash here, but I got hooked on this one. Most of it’s pretty good acting, but what’s with the the wild-eyed colony military leader?

Best sf/f books I read

Hunger Games, Suzanne Collins. IQ84, Haruki Murakami. The Brahms Deception, Louise Marley, Tongues of Serpents, Naomi Novik. Read More »


What I Believe

Every December I find myself waxing philosophical about myself, the writing life, storytelling and the perfect lasagna recipe.

No, I’m not going to share my current lasagna recipe (some things are just too personal for blogging) but I am willing to share my articles of faith about writing. None of the following can be proven, but:

I believe that . . .

1. – the world is becoming a better place for writers.

2. – the writing life is the most rigorous program in the world for self-knowledge, inspiration and personal growth. And yes, I Have tried Buddhism.

3. – no matter how good a writer you are, you can always improve. And need to.

4. – the marketplace disciplines us, if we will only listen.

5. – to keep my writing fresh I need to move out of/beyond what I’ve done before.

6. – fine stories are much more important than fine writing.

7. – the most inexplicable part of writing is where stories come from. I  build novels up carefully, but where the glittering story kernel comes from in the first place remains an astonishing mystery. But if asked, I will always say: A PO Box in Spokane.

8  – despite my thwarted desire for a year on the NYT best seller list, I am mightily compensated in this work by my friendships with, and the company of, the people I’ve met in publishing.

9. – this story (whatever the current work in progress) is the best I’ve ever done. When I stop believing that, it won’t be fun any more.

10. – if I’m not giving back to aspiring writers and the writing community, my lasagna will turn watery and the top strip will be too crunchy.


Kay’s Report Card, 2010

Dear Sumo Cat,

Your housekeeper has been doing well and growing in the school of fiction. She is a delight to work with and most of her fellow students enjoy her company. She cleans up after herself and has been learning new skills. Kay will need to learn to manage her worries. The world of fiction is cut-throat, unfair, bewildering and freaky, but most adults learn to accept this.

Skill Sets

1. Learning New Writing Skills. A Read More »


A trip to the big city

Just back from a six day stay in NYC, thanks to friends D & L, who let us stay in their Greenwich apt. while they were away. Tom and I brought son Matt with us, who despite being more widely traveled than either of us, had never been to New York. The whole thing was nonstop fun, the weather beautiful, the apartment amazing, and man, I haven’t stayed up that late for decades. And Matt went out after tucking us in . . . and so I think he had twice as much fun as we did, although I don’t really want to know! Read More »


One handed typing

Because it’s necessary sometimes.

Sumo and Kay today at 1:18


Sumo at Rest

Air conditioning inside, but with 100 degree heat, Sumo’s fav spot is under the hydrangea bush.